Wednesday, March 07, 2007

Dreaming of less

Last night I was at the end of myself. Early yesterday something really hurtful and difficult happened with a person I care about and it left me wondering if I should go on with some plans I've been making. So. last night I prayed that I would love to know God's direction. I'd take a dream or however He wanted to show me. As I asked, somewhere within me I heard "You don't want the dream. You don't want this answer. If you have a dream of God's direction, you aren't going to want to surrender to it."

The dream was simple. I drove down a dirt road just like the ones my relatives used to live on to a ramshackle house that had a single mother and a promiscuous young teen daughter. I felt all the same emotions that I've felt when I've visited my cousin like "This place is dirty. Why don't they clean" and "you know, young lady I don't think you should be wearing that kind of underwear at your age and I definitely shouldn't be seeing it." There was porn on the computer which made me very uncomfortable personally because I struggle with that vice.

Then in my dream we went to a Christian group together and I had to struggle with reconciling my church friends with these people I'd brought in.

When I woke up I knew that I had been called out. I didn't want to deal with this or any other part of the dream I had. I didn't want to pray. I didn't want to read. I wanted to sleep because I knew God was calling me to descend.

I've been using the words "the poor, the needy and the afflicted" in my monologs of social justice and love and the gospel. I've been saying that the hope for the church is to reach out to these "others". That is true. It's all over the gospels, the Law, the prophets and Psalms. The only thing I couldn't figure out was how to have a shorter label for the poor, needy, widows, orphans, afflicted, homeless and needy.

-- As a side note it turns out that there is no simple category to put all these people. There are no acronyms. If you think about it, that's a very good thing. The cumbersome nature of having say this full list of oppressions means that you have to think about it. It's almost a forced meditation. --

The people we seem to want to be called to are usually somewhere else. The default places for Americans are usually India or Africa. Have you ever wondered why? As hard as this is to say I think it's because these places fulfill our desire to be generous or be known as "good people" and at the same time fulfill our desires to "ascend" and be well traveled and well-to-do.

But what I think a lot of us fail to realize is that the people we developing romantic notions about outreaching to are actually a lot like people we already know, but don't want to be around. They are the cousins in my family that we all look just a little bit down on. They are the people who drive cars with tinted windows that you make fun of and who live in trailer parks and neighborhoods the lawn has junk in it.

For the hipsters among us they are the suburbanites who work in cubicles and buy into the capitalist lifestyle. For the suburbanites among us they are those people who just don't seem like they want to improve their lives because they won't take our advice. They are socially awkward people who invite themselves to our parties or small groups and make everyone feel a little uncomfortable.

They are the people that I made fun of or thought I was better than today.

They are probably not the people I like, are like me, I want to like me or want to be like. They are very likely an offense to their relatives because of the way they dress or what they drive or how they talk or simply because they can't help those around them "ascend" unless it's to make them feel superior.

My dilemma is that I have such a hard time loving these people here and yet I want to go abroad to a place with little or no support and try to do it there.

I understand that Jesus sent out disciples. And I know He said, "a prophet is not without honor except in his own hometown" and that the people of Nazareth who knew him the longest wanted to kill him. There's something about being sent. But there's also something in the gospels about counting the costs to make sure you can finish. I don't know if we do that.

I can't say that you or I shouldn't go someplace else and try to bring the kingdom of heaven. I very much want to do exactly that. What I am saying is that we don't always know what it is we're asking for. We may very well get to our missionary post and see that it's not only them that needs to change, but us. The gospel has been shared without love in many places and in those places the gospel has failed to drive out oppression. I'm not sure the gospel without humility and love is even the gospel. Meanwhile there are opportunities right here to practice the same kind of love and I don't think we're being very faithful in them.

A young man with a lot of money once asked Jesus how to have a fulfilling life. He called it eternal life. Jesus answered with some basic commandments. The young man asked what else he needed to do. I guess to him being rich and obeying the commandments wasn't enough. So Jesus told him to sell everything he had and give it to the poor, then follow Jesus and he would be fulfilled.

We know that the man was sad because he was being asked to give up all his riches and everything that made him comfortable. But this morning I realized that the other hard part is that in order to follow Jesus -- before this man could do any other good thing -- he would first have to interact with the poor. I think that in order to be as rich as he was in that society he may very well have had to ignore the poor to do it. He would have had to interact with people he may never have wanted to see.

That's something I have to think about because I asked for this dream.

Luke 8:15 "But the seed in the good soil, these are the ones who have heard the word in an honest and good heart, and hold it fast, and bear fruit with perseverance."

posted by Scott # 8:29 AM

Comments:

"As hard as this is to say I think it's because these places fulfill our desire to be generous or be known as "good people" and at the same time fulfill our desires to "ascend" and be well traveled and well-to-do."

I could not agree more. At least, when I look critically at my own motives, I see this.

# posted by Josh : 10:53 PM, March 07, 2007